Change isn't important, growth is.
I know I haven't always been the best decision-maker, but I do know when to quit... sometimes. Tonight, I'm writing about change because there are some people out there who absolutely hate their job but are afraid to find a new one.. same goes with relationships.. are you just going to stay? Knowing he or she isn't the one for you, but it's "acceptable"? It's easy to let fear keep you from making changes; you might fear failure, criticism, or uncertainty. Change is scary, but staying the same is also frightening. You'll face failure, criticism, and uncertainty regardless. I wish I could've told my younger self this.
In previous posts, I've mentioned that I don't know the situation that person may be in, but are you just going to let that fear define you for the rest of your life? Will you remain in a relationship where he or she doesn't respect or appreciate you as you deserve?
There are a bajillion jobs and a gazillion men/women out there who can treat you better, so what are you waiting for?
This is off-topic, but my heart goes out to anyone facing hardships without a support system. It's truly heartbreaking, and I wouldn't wish such a situation on even my worst enemies. Dealing with challenges all alone, with nobody to lean on or talk to, is one of the cruelest things that can happen to someone. I have a strong desire to help those people, to be there for them. Perhaps I'll write about this another time, but for now, let's get back on topic.
I've learned change is undeniable, sure it's scary to most people and I don't think many are comfortable with it.. which is why it's scary.. duh. I've been scared of change my whole life, and I guess in some ways I still am. Regardless of whether we choose to embrace it or not. Taking charge of change grants us the wisdom to determine what to change and when, empowering us rather than leaving it to life to dictate.
"The only constant in life is change."
Embracing this truth has liberated me from the need to control and allowed me to find acceptance in the face of life's uncertainties. I now cherish each moment and welcome the opportunities for growth and self-discovery that change brings.
Like, there are people out there who keep doing the same thing over and over, only to expect different results. There are so many problems in the world that could be resolved through change but aren't, because people resist it.
And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom. —Anaïs Nin
If you always do what you've always done, you'll always get what you've always got.
Lastly, this post isn't me telling you to quit your job, nor is it me telling you to leave your boyfriend or girlfriend. It's simply an eye-opener, and perhaps you needed to hear this? Maybe I can give you the confidence that you needed? I don't know; I'm still figuring out my purpose with these blogs. I'm just writing what's on my mind. I genuinely want to help people, but sometimes I'm unsure of what or how I could be of assistance. So, I hope someone reads this and uses it to their advantage. I know it wasn't much, but it's something.
Don't forget that in the end everything will be okay, be kind to yourself..